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Letter 25
1 Idea From Me
Spiritual warfare is, first and foremost, a battle for the mind.
1 Quote From Someone Else
“There are two equal and opposite errors into which our race can fall about the devils. One is to disbelieve in their existence. The other is to believe, and to feel an excessive and unhealthy interest in them. They themselves are equally pleased by both errors and hail a materialist or a magician with the same delight.” - C. S. Lewis
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Where is your attention?
The first freedom that you and I have is what we choose to think about. Thoughts are the place where we can, and must begin to change. In other words, how do you filter your thought life?
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”Romans 12:2
We have to understand that spiritual forces influence culture, which are in turn influencing our minds, which direct and shape our lives.
You've heard the phrase “garbage in, garbage out?” It is computer programming terminology. What goes in is what comes out. It is when scripture says, "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks."
Whatever you fill up your mind and heart with is what is going to come out.
It could be the influence of anime, racy novels, maybe news outlets, language in music etc… We can joke around about how easy it is to see the flags in those things. But we don't always understand how they influence us. How do we value things based on how the world values them? Then you hear Christians chatting about the soft pornography of Game of Thrones, or Fifty Shades of Grey, casually laughing about about obscene sexual deviance and the epitome of gratuitous violence.
I'm not saying we should boycott Hollywood. I am saying that everything we allow into our minds has an affect on our souls for good or evil.
What you give your attention to will shape the person you become. You are what you're mind looks at. You are what you contemplate. It's called "spiritual formation."
That's why our entertainment choices, our reading habits, our screen time, our news sources, are all central to either making you more into the image of Jesus, or forming you more into the image of the devil. Harsh but true.
Turn your attention to life and the Source of Life. Fix your eyes on Jesus.
1 Idea From Me
Spiritual warfare is, first and foremost, a battle for the mind.
1 Quote From Someone Else
“There are two equal and opposite errors into which our race can fall about the devils. One is to disbelieve in their existence. The other is to believe, and to feel an excessive and unhealthy interest in them. They themselves are equally pleased by both errors and hail a materialist or a magician with the same delight.” - C. S. Lewis
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Where is your attention?
The first freedom that you and I have is what we choose to think about. Thoughts are the place where we can, and must begin to change. In other words, how do you filter your thought life?
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”Romans 12:2
We have to understand that spiritual forces influence culture, which are in turn influencing our minds, which direct and shape our lives.
You've heard the phrase “garbage in, garbage out?” It is computer programming terminology. What goes in is what comes out. It is when scripture says, "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks."
Whatever you fill up your mind and heart with is what is going to come out.
It could be the influence of anime, racy novels, maybe news outlets, language in music etc… We can joke around about how easy it is to see the flags in those things. But we don't always understand how they influence us. How do we value things based on how the world values them? Then you hear Christians chatting about the soft pornography of Game of Thrones, or Fifty Shades of Grey, casually laughing about about obscene sexual deviance and the epitome of gratuitous violence.
I'm not saying we should boycott Hollywood. I am saying that everything we allow into our minds has an affect on our souls for good or evil.
What you give your attention to will shape the person you become. You are what you're mind looks at. You are what you contemplate. It's called "spiritual formation."
That's why our entertainment choices, our reading habits, our screen time, our news sources, are all central to either making you more into the image of Jesus, or forming you more into the image of the devil. Harsh but true.
Turn your attention to life and the Source of Life. Fix your eyes on Jesus.
Letter 24
1 Idea From Me
Our souls are starving for a purpose to organize our lives around. And one way, or another, whether truthful or deceitful, we will find one.
1 Quote From Someone Else
You didn't create yourself, so there is no way you can tell yourself what you were created for!
- Rick Warren
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
It's common for people today to proclaim: "I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul." From the poem Invictus by William Ernest Henley.
This is a very appealing idea. It sounds brave and self-sufficient. It sounds like we are willing to face the tempest of life under our own strength and "damn the torpedoes." We are willing to shoulder the consequences of our self mastery.
The only problem with that is your self manufactured purpose is only as sturdy as you are. And it turns out, in the face of our own mortality, we aren't particularly sturdy. Life is tragic for everyone eventually. We need a purpose that transcends our circumstances.
You and I aren't cosmic accidents. We aren't a chance convocation of molecules that somehow developed consciousness in spite of its nearly inestimable improbability. We were created with great intent, and love. The God, who speaks reality into being offers us the gift of life in that reality. Jesus says "I am the way, the truth, and the life." When we align our lives with the truth that is embodied in Christ, instead of crashing into reality, we are embraced by Reality.
1 Idea From Me
Our souls are starving for a purpose to organize our lives around. And one way, or another, whether truthful or deceitful, we will find one.
1 Quote From Someone Else
You didn't create yourself, so there is no way you can tell yourself what you were created for!
- Rick Warren
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
It's common for people today to proclaim: "I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul." From the poem Invictus by William Ernest Henley.
This is a very appealing idea. It sounds brave and self-sufficient. It sounds like we are willing to face the tempest of life under our own strength and "damn the torpedoes." We are willing to shoulder the consequences of our self mastery.
The only problem with that is your self manufactured purpose is only as sturdy as you are. And it turns out, in the face of our own mortality, we aren't particularly sturdy. Life is tragic for everyone eventually. We need a purpose that transcends our circumstances.
You and I aren't cosmic accidents. We aren't a chance convocation of molecules that somehow developed consciousness in spite of its nearly inestimable improbability. We were created with great intent, and love. The God, who speaks reality into being offers us the gift of life in that reality. Jesus says "I am the way, the truth, and the life." When we align our lives with the truth that is embodied in Christ, instead of crashing into reality, we are embraced by Reality.
Letter 23
1 Idea From Me
Talent and character aren't mutually exclusive. But if I had to pick one, I would pick character all day.
1 Quote From Someone Else
"Wisdom is the right use of knowledge. To know is not to be wise. Many men know a great deal, and are all the greater fools for it. There is no fool so great a fool as a knowing fool. But to know how to use knowledge is to have wisdom." - Charles Spurgeon
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Having been in worship arts ministry for many many years, I have rubbed shoulders with a lot of extremely talented people. I have also rubbed shoulders with a lot of marginally talented people, of which I am one. 🙂 Interestingly, some of the most gifted people I have ever met are also some of the most difficult to work with. People whose personal lives are often disproportionately wrecked by regretful and seemingly obvious poor choices. I hope that doesn't sound like sour grapes on my part. None of us is above, making a calamity of our personal lives. Yet, it must be hugely challenging to not find one's identity solely in one's great talent. And that often leads to the malformation of one's character
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. James 1:5
The beauty of life in the kingdom where Jesus is the king is that wisdom is available to everyone. You don't have to be particularly smart, or talented, or good looking, or of some elevated status, to walk in the wisdom of the Savior. Scripture says we can merely ask, believe, and it will be given as we need it. Jesus' offer of "come follow me" is no respecter of persons. We can all get covered in the dust of our rabbi's footsteps as we follow closely behind. That is wisdom that shapes one's character. Following Jesus rewires us from the inside. You can't get close to the maker of the universe and stay the same.
1 Idea From Me
Talent and character aren't mutually exclusive. But if I had to pick one, I would pick character all day.
1 Quote From Someone Else
"Wisdom is the right use of knowledge. To know is not to be wise. Many men know a great deal, and are all the greater fools for it. There is no fool so great a fool as a knowing fool. But to know how to use knowledge is to have wisdom." - Charles Spurgeon
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Having been in worship arts ministry for many many years, I have rubbed shoulders with a lot of extremely talented people. I have also rubbed shoulders with a lot of marginally talented people, of which I am one. 🙂 Interestingly, some of the most gifted people I have ever met are also some of the most difficult to work with. People whose personal lives are often disproportionately wrecked by regretful and seemingly obvious poor choices. I hope that doesn't sound like sour grapes on my part. None of us is above, making a calamity of our personal lives. Yet, it must be hugely challenging to not find one's identity solely in one's great talent. And that often leads to the malformation of one's character
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. James 1:5
The beauty of life in the kingdom where Jesus is the king is that wisdom is available to everyone. You don't have to be particularly smart, or talented, or good looking, or of some elevated status, to walk in the wisdom of the Savior. Scripture says we can merely ask, believe, and it will be given as we need it. Jesus' offer of "come follow me" is no respecter of persons. We can all get covered in the dust of our rabbi's footsteps as we follow closely behind. That is wisdom that shapes one's character. Following Jesus rewires us from the inside. You can't get close to the maker of the universe and stay the same.
Letter 22
1 Idea From Me
The Kingdom of Heaven is for those who receive the King.
1 Quote From Someone Else
"Indeed, the social and political realm, along with the individual heart, is the only place in all of creation where the kingdom of God, or his effective will, is currently permitted to be absent…
…So when Jesus directs us to pray, “Thy kingdom come,” he does not mean we should pray for it to come into existence. Rather, we pray for it to take over at all points in the personal, social, and political order where it is now excluded: “On earth as it is in heaven." - Dallas Willard
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
The availability of the kingdom of the heavens is directly related to Jesus. Jesus is the king of his kingdom. If we except the king, we get the benefits of his kingdom. If we reject the king, we miss out on his kingdom.
In Matthew 13 Jesus is speaking to a crowd of people in parables. He gives a parable of various kinds of soil in their relationship to the word of the kingdom (vs19.) In explaining the parable Jesus says that some people will be unable to understand them. Their meaning is hidden from them. I believe, the reason is, if you don't except the authority of Jesus as the son of God, you certainly aren't going to receive what he has to say. If you miss the gravity and authority of the one who spoke creation into existence, you will not understand, or receive the word of his kingdom. The parables will be meaningless to you or obscured because they can only be received,and understood in the proper context of the one who is teaching. Jesus is the king Messiah. Miss that and you misunderstand everything he says about his kingdom.
1 Idea From Me
The Kingdom of Heaven is for those who receive the King.
1 Quote From Someone Else
"Indeed, the social and political realm, along with the individual heart, is the only place in all of creation where the kingdom of God, or his effective will, is currently permitted to be absent…
…So when Jesus directs us to pray, “Thy kingdom come,” he does not mean we should pray for it to come into existence. Rather, we pray for it to take over at all points in the personal, social, and political order where it is now excluded: “On earth as it is in heaven." - Dallas Willard
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
The availability of the kingdom of the heavens is directly related to Jesus. Jesus is the king of his kingdom. If we except the king, we get the benefits of his kingdom. If we reject the king, we miss out on his kingdom.
In Matthew 13 Jesus is speaking to a crowd of people in parables. He gives a parable of various kinds of soil in their relationship to the word of the kingdom (vs19.) In explaining the parable Jesus says that some people will be unable to understand them. Their meaning is hidden from them. I believe, the reason is, if you don't except the authority of Jesus as the son of God, you certainly aren't going to receive what he has to say. If you miss the gravity and authority of the one who spoke creation into existence, you will not understand, or receive the word of his kingdom. The parables will be meaningless to you or obscured because they can only be received,and understood in the proper context of the one who is teaching. Jesus is the king Messiah. Miss that and you misunderstand everything he says about his kingdom.
Letter 21
1 Idea From Me
In any given situation, ask yourself, "What is the most loving thing I can do?"
1 Quote From Someone Else
"Love offers us no place to hide. It offers no loopholes, short cuts, or workarounds. But aren't you glad Jesus didn't look for a loophole to loving you? What does love require of you at home, at work, on the little league field, in traffic, in line at the grocery store?" - Andy Stanley
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
"What is the most loving thing I can do?"
This is the question that helps us resolve a lot of issues.
Not, "What will cause me the least grief?"
Or, "What will make this person like me?"
Or even, "What does public sentiment to do?"
Love is full of both grace AND truth. Remember, Jesus words to the woman caught in adultery, "... Neither do I condemn you. Go and leave your life of sin."
Often, we are tempted to go along with someone's dysfunction for fear of the mess they will make if you don't. But the truth is, capitulating to someone's unhealthy patterns is not the helpful or loving thing to do for them. Even if they dislike you for it. It is worth it in the long run.
And sometimes, the most loving thing to do is to NOT point out the mistake they have made or the gaff they have pulled. It can be a loving thing to guard someone's dignity when they know they are wrong.
1st Peter 4:8 "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
1 Idea From Me
In any given situation, ask yourself, "What is the most loving thing I can do?"
1 Quote From Someone Else
"Love offers us no place to hide. It offers no loopholes, short cuts, or workarounds. But aren't you glad Jesus didn't look for a loophole to loving you? What does love require of you at home, at work, on the little league field, in traffic, in line at the grocery store?" - Andy Stanley
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
"What is the most loving thing I can do?"
This is the question that helps us resolve a lot of issues.
Not, "What will cause me the least grief?"
Or, "What will make this person like me?"
Or even, "What does public sentiment to do?"
Love is full of both grace AND truth. Remember, Jesus words to the woman caught in adultery, "... Neither do I condemn you. Go and leave your life of sin."
Often, we are tempted to go along with someone's dysfunction for fear of the mess they will make if you don't. But the truth is, capitulating to someone's unhealthy patterns is not the helpful or loving thing to do for them. Even if they dislike you for it. It is worth it in the long run.
And sometimes, the most loving thing to do is to NOT point out the mistake they have made or the gaff they have pulled. It can be a loving thing to guard someone's dignity when they know they are wrong.
1st Peter 4:8 "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
Letter 20
1 Idea From Me
“Intimacy with Jesus is the engine of discipleship. To know Him is to love Him. To love Him is to trust Him. To trust Him is to joyfully obey Him. To joyfully obey Him is to love as He loves."
1 Quote From Someone Else
"The new life begun in us at the touch of God’s gracious word upon the depths of our soul is experienced by us as love of Jesus and his Kingdom. ... “The one who obeys me is the one who loves me; and because he loves me, my Father will love him, and I will too, and I will reveal myself to him.” (John 14:21, LB) Obedience would be the sign of love, as love was the sign of discipleship. ...he is teaching that obedience and love go together because love alone stays to find a way to obey." - Dallas Willard, "The Spirit of the Disciplines"
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Is my conviction that our growing relationship with Jesus, in our regular, coming and going every day lives, is what produces the abundant life He wants for us. Fullness of life is found in fullness of intimacy with Christ. In this way, our obedience to him isn't so much an act of duty or manipulation of God's favor, but it is an act born of love and admiration. It is to do what he does in order to be like him because we love him. So, our motive isn't fear or self interest, entirely. Those things prove themselves to be entirely unsustainable. And, more often than not, turn out to be more an inflation rather than deflation of our egos. As the love of Jesus is selfless, so our imitation of him will make us progressively more and more selfless. As CS Lewis, put it, "humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less."
May our overriding passion in life be to fall more and more in love with Jesus. To know his voice and know his presence more clearly every day. And to joyfully follow him in obedience and admiration so that the abundance of life he gives overflows through us to the people he puts in our path.
1 Idea From Me
“Intimacy with Jesus is the engine of discipleship. To know Him is to love Him. To love Him is to trust Him. To trust Him is to joyfully obey Him. To joyfully obey Him is to love as He loves."
1 Quote From Someone Else
"The new life begun in us at the touch of God’s gracious word upon the depths of our soul is experienced by us as love of Jesus and his Kingdom. ... “The one who obeys me is the one who loves me; and because he loves me, my Father will love him, and I will too, and I will reveal myself to him.” (John 14:21, LB) Obedience would be the sign of love, as love was the sign of discipleship. ...he is teaching that obedience and love go together because love alone stays to find a way to obey." - Dallas Willard, "The Spirit of the Disciplines"
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Is my conviction that our growing relationship with Jesus, in our regular, coming and going every day lives, is what produces the abundant life He wants for us. Fullness of life is found in fullness of intimacy with Christ. In this way, our obedience to him isn't so much an act of duty or manipulation of God's favor, but it is an act born of love and admiration. It is to do what he does in order to be like him because we love him. So, our motive isn't fear or self interest, entirely. Those things prove themselves to be entirely unsustainable. And, more often than not, turn out to be more an inflation rather than deflation of our egos. As the love of Jesus is selfless, so our imitation of him will make us progressively more and more selfless. As CS Lewis, put it, "humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less."
May our overriding passion in life be to fall more and more in love with Jesus. To know his voice and know his presence more clearly every day. And to joyfully follow him in obedience and admiration so that the abundance of life he gives overflows through us to the people he puts in our path.
Letter 19
1 Idea From Me
“Then [Jesus] said to them, ‘The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath’” (Mark 2:27 NIV). Jesus reminds us all why we step away with Him. The Sabbath, the rest, is meant to lift the burden of life, not add to it. The tide goes in, and the tide goes out. There is a time for us to work with all our might. But it is in our design to step away and rest. The soul rest we have in Jesus doesn’t just restore our energy reserves. It restores our identities. It makes whole what has been chipped away by the struggle of life. His rest regularly tells us who we are and whose we are. He restores, realigns, and recalibrates all that is crushed in our hurriedness."
1 Quote From Someone Else
“If we do not allow for a rhythm of rest in our overly busy lives, illness becomes our Sabbath - our pneumonia, our cancer, our heart attack, our accidents create Sabbath for us.” - Wayne Muller
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Having been in ministry for a very long time, Sunday is not my Sabbath. Sunday is game day for me. But it might work for you. If not, pick another day. My day is Friday. I try to disengage from anything that has to do with work/ministry. I try to do things that are restful and renewing.
What does that look like for you? Do you feel guilty when you let off the gas? Or do you feel like sabbath doesn't really mean much for you?
I would encourage you to pick one day of the week where you can freely disengage from all of the self defining, striving that crowds your life. Do something with that time that is restoring. It might be working out or taking a run. It might be learning to paint with oils. It might be to take a nap and read a really good book.
Whatever that might be, make it a sacred appointment with your Heavenly Father. Step away from all of the other activity and let him love you in the rest. Your soul needs this.
1 Idea From Me
“Then [Jesus] said to them, ‘The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath’” (Mark 2:27 NIV). Jesus reminds us all why we step away with Him. The Sabbath, the rest, is meant to lift the burden of life, not add to it. The tide goes in, and the tide goes out. There is a time for us to work with all our might. But it is in our design to step away and rest. The soul rest we have in Jesus doesn’t just restore our energy reserves. It restores our identities. It makes whole what has been chipped away by the struggle of life. His rest regularly tells us who we are and whose we are. He restores, realigns, and recalibrates all that is crushed in our hurriedness."
1 Quote From Someone Else
“If we do not allow for a rhythm of rest in our overly busy lives, illness becomes our Sabbath - our pneumonia, our cancer, our heart attack, our accidents create Sabbath for us.” - Wayne Muller
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Having been in ministry for a very long time, Sunday is not my Sabbath. Sunday is game day for me. But it might work for you. If not, pick another day. My day is Friday. I try to disengage from anything that has to do with work/ministry. I try to do things that are restful and renewing.
What does that look like for you? Do you feel guilty when you let off the gas? Or do you feel like sabbath doesn't really mean much for you?
I would encourage you to pick one day of the week where you can freely disengage from all of the self defining, striving that crowds your life. Do something with that time that is restoring. It might be working out or taking a run. It might be learning to paint with oils. It might be to take a nap and read a really good book.
Whatever that might be, make it a sacred appointment with your Heavenly Father. Step away from all of the other activity and let him love you in the rest. Your soul needs this.
Letter 18
1 Idea From Me
"The holiness of Jesus isn’t afraid of the mess. It isn’t afraid to get dirty. It isn’t afraid to appear guilty by association. It isn’t afraid to touch the untouchable. Instead, His holiness enters in and elevates everyone it touches."
1 Quote From Someone Else
"The incarnation is a kind of vast joke whereby the Creator of the ends of the earth comes among us in diapers. . . . Until we too have taken the idea of the God-man seriously enough to be scandalized by it, we have not taken it as seriously as it demands to be taken."
—Frederick Buechner
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
The love of Jesus came close. And as we follow Him, He will lead us places we never expected to go and spend time with people we never planned to meet. This is the challenge and adventure of following our Hero. He calls us to enter into the mess and joy of the lives all around us.
Who are the people that you tend to overlook or avoid? Is it because their lives are messy? Is it because they have some thing you are envious of? Why is it difficult to "mourn with those who mourn and rejoice with those who rejoice" when it comes to some people?
Prayerfully ask God to reveal some of those challenging people in our lives. Whether their lives are more broken or more successful than we prefer, how can we unselfishly be a blessing? How do we meaningfully enter in with the kind of love Jesus has exhibited to us?
As God reveals someone to you, make a plan to engage with them and encourage or bless them without expectation. Write their names down in your journal somewhere and make a concrete plan.
1 Idea From Me
"The holiness of Jesus isn’t afraid of the mess. It isn’t afraid to get dirty. It isn’t afraid to appear guilty by association. It isn’t afraid to touch the untouchable. Instead, His holiness enters in and elevates everyone it touches."
1 Quote From Someone Else
"The incarnation is a kind of vast joke whereby the Creator of the ends of the earth comes among us in diapers. . . . Until we too have taken the idea of the God-man seriously enough to be scandalized by it, we have not taken it as seriously as it demands to be taken."
—Frederick Buechner
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
The love of Jesus came close. And as we follow Him, He will lead us places we never expected to go and spend time with people we never planned to meet. This is the challenge and adventure of following our Hero. He calls us to enter into the mess and joy of the lives all around us.
Who are the people that you tend to overlook or avoid? Is it because their lives are messy? Is it because they have some thing you are envious of? Why is it difficult to "mourn with those who mourn and rejoice with those who rejoice" when it comes to some people?
Prayerfully ask God to reveal some of those challenging people in our lives. Whether their lives are more broken or more successful than we prefer, how can we unselfishly be a blessing? How do we meaningfully enter in with the kind of love Jesus has exhibited to us?
As God reveals someone to you, make a plan to engage with them and encourage or bless them without expectation. Write their names down in your journal somewhere and make a concrete plan.
Letter 17
1 Idea From Me
"The Holy Spirit within you isn't just tolerating you. He isn't wishing He was somewhere else. He isn't wishing you were someone else. He celebrates your existence in this great universe He created."
1 Quote From Someone Else
"I am someone in whom God dwells and in whom He delights."
- James Brian Smith
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Scripture clearly tells us that the Spirit of Christ, the Holy Spirit indwells us. He makes our bodies His Temple. This is an acceptance and intimacy beyond what we can imagine. He is closer than the air around us. And he is available to us at all times even when we don't feel his presence.
This is the mystery that Paul talks about. Christ in you, the hope of glory! You are never alone. And you are never unloved.
One small thing you can do this week, at the beginning of each day, is to celebrate this miracle.
Say aloud: "I am someone in whom God dwells and in whom He delights." Say it and believe it a little more each day.
The more we let this truth penetrate our hearts and minds, the more we are able to confidently love others without expectation. We can then love because he first loved us.
Receive that love. Everything else will follow.
1 Idea From Me
"The Holy Spirit within you isn't just tolerating you. He isn't wishing He was somewhere else. He isn't wishing you were someone else. He celebrates your existence in this great universe He created."
1 Quote From Someone Else
"I am someone in whom God dwells and in whom He delights."
- James Brian Smith
1 Small Thing to Do or Think About
Scripture clearly tells us that the Spirit of Christ, the Holy Spirit indwells us. He makes our bodies His Temple. This is an acceptance and intimacy beyond what we can imagine. He is closer than the air around us. And he is available to us at all times even when we don't feel his presence.
This is the mystery that Paul talks about. Christ in you, the hope of glory! You are never alone. And you are never unloved.
One small thing you can do this week, at the beginning of each day, is to celebrate this miracle.
Say aloud: "I am someone in whom God dwells and in whom He delights." Say it and believe it a little more each day.
The more we let this truth penetrate our hearts and minds, the more we are able to confidently love others without expectation. We can then love because he first loved us.
Receive that love. Everything else will follow.